MiloJulo Community Guidelines

Draft, version 1. Not yet reviewed by a lawyer. Last updated 26 October 2026.

MiloJulo works when people feel safe enough to meet a stranger for coffee. These guidelines are what we expect of everyone here, and what we act on when it goes wrong. They are part of the Terms of Use.

Be a real person

Use your own name, your own photos, and your real age. No impersonating anyone, no photos of someone else, no accounts run on behalf of a business.

Be decent

• No harassment. Not after a declined request, not after a chat goes quiet, not anywhere. "No" is a complete answer and needs no explanation.
• No sexual content where it isn't wanted. Nudity and sexual images are not allowed in profiles or Activities at all. In chat, they belong only in a Casual connection, which exists only between two people who both chose Casual and who have both allowed media in that chat.
• Nothing involving minors, in any form, ever. We report child sexual abuse material to the authorities and ban the account.
• No hate. Nothing attacking people for their religion, caste, ethnicity, nationality, disability, gender or sexuality.
• No threats or violence, including towards yourself. If you are struggling, the Safety Centre in the app lists where to get help.

Be honest

No scams, no investment or crypto pitches, no asking Members for money, no selling, no recruiting into schemes, no links to anything you would not want a moderator to open.

Respect privacy

What someone tells you in a chat stays there. Do not share anyone's photos, messages, contact details or where they live. On Android the app stops screenshots in chat; on iPhone it cannot, and we would rather tell you that than let you believe otherwise. Assume anything you send can be kept.

Meeting in person

Meet somewhere public the first time. Tell a friend your plan. Arrange your own way there and back. Leave the moment something feels off — you never owe anyone an explanation.

What we do about it

Reporting. Every profile, photo, message and Activity has a Report. Reports are read by a person, and we aim to respond within 24 hours. We never tell someone who reported them.

Blocking. Blocking hides you and the other person from each other everywhere: Discover, chats, the Activity board, Circles. They are not told. You can unblock from Settings → Blocked people.

Automatic hiding. A profile, photo or Activity reported by three different Members within seven days is hidden until a moderator has looked at it. Messages are never hidden automatically; a person decides.

Word filter. Some words are refused outright in names, prompt answers and Activity text. In chat the message is delivered and flagged to moderators, because stopping a message mid-conversation tends to hurt the person being harassed more than the person harassing.

What a moderator can do. Take content down, restore it if the report was wrong, or ban the account. Every one of those actions is written to a log we cannot edit afterwards. A ban is permanent: we have no way to reverse one today.

If we get it wrong

Write to support@milojulo.co.in. A person reads it.